Let the Games Begin...

So today I got a email from my mom. She has really nothing to do with me or my children except at Easter and Christmas. So today I get a email asking how my marathon training was going. Since I had not done that in several months, that shows has long it has been since I had heard from her. I went ahead and broke it to her that I had the lap-band. She wrote back later this afternoon and asked if we could start meeting in White House and walking together. I do not know how I feel about this. I knew it would come because these people have been obsessed with my weight my entire life. I honestly thought that it would not come for some time after I had dropped say 80-90lbs. To me this is conditional love and I don't need it. Either you love me how I am, all the time, unconditionally, or you don't love me at all. This women has made a couple of feeble attempts in the past to be a part of my life by coming in and remodeling my house, but each time I would get my hopes up that she was going to stick around, and then nothing. I finally visited a counselor during my divorce that said I must not let her walk in and out of my life like that. As of Christmas, I had made a attempt to talk to her about our past one last time, and she quickly stated I love you and that should be enough. She wrote e-mails for a while and then backed off again. I don't know how to feel at this point. I would love to have a mother in my life but at the same time I don't know if I want a mother under false pretenses....HELP! What would you do? Please I need advice....Until next time...Is this going to be my new thinner lifestyle? People who never paid me attention before suddenly take hold and pay attention now? If so I would rather be fat. Fat people are more genuine.